尽量避免IN 和 NOT IN
参考https://www.cnblogs.com/totian/p/7597300.html
select a.* from tb_auth a where a.auth_id in (select ra.auth_id from tb_role_auth ra where ra.role_id = 3)
select a.* from tb_auth a where exists (select ra.auth_id from tb_role_auth ra where ra.role_id = 3)