Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.
只有我可以改变我的命运，没有人可以帮我做。
Stop complaining about the unfairness of your fate.
Except for some unexpected reasons, many of the results are determined by our own actions.
So, if we want to make some changes to our life, we must mainly depend on ourselves.
Besides, the platform is also very important.
If we have a higher startpoint, it may be easier for us to achieve a higher level than those who have a relatively infeiror startpoint.
However, the startpoint sometimes plays a less important role in our growth.
After all, to some extent, life is like a running race, if you don't do your best, there will be many people who can get ahead of you.
Leading the race or just lagging behind as a loser, you choose.
If you reveal your secrets to the wind you should not blame the wind for revealing them to the trees.
你若将秘密说给风听，那就别怪风说给树听。
From Kahlil Gibran.
If you are frank and honest, you wouldn't have such worries.
But almost every of us have something secret that we don't want others know.
Like me, I am increasingly not willing to answer the questions about my age and my past.
Because I think my skills and abilities don't match my age.
That is really a pity. But how to grow and how to grow up quickly and effectively?
Bear in mind to stay away from the mobile phone and work hard, don't play at all when working on the business.