Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind.
爱，不在眼里，而在心中。
Staring in her eyes and you will find your image.
If the two are living in different places, can you think of what she is like in your mind?
When making some important decisions, we have to take each other into our consideration.
Otherwise we are destined to separate.
Other things are the same, if you really love one thing, you are willing to devote all you have to make it better and finish it in a best way.
A lot of fellows nowadays have a B.A., M.D., or Ph.D. Unfortunately, they don't have a J.O.B.
现在有很多人都拥有学士、硕士，或者是博士学位，但不幸的是，他们都没有工作。
From Fats Domino.
I searched for Fats Domino on the Wikipedia to make clear who the man is.
Ok, now I know that man born in 1928, is an American pianist and singer-songwriter, and five of his records sold over one million copies and were certified as gold records, besides, he had 35 records in the US Top 40.
So, he might be qualified to say that, and I agree with his opinion to some extent.
Because I think it is easy to get a bachelor's degreee, or a master's degree, even a doctor's degree, but it might be a little difficult to get a satisfying job.
Satisfying job, yes, I want to highlight the very point that many people with higher academic degrees don't have a job just because they can't find a suitable one, meanwhile, they are not willing to lower their standards or demands.
Just like me, I have a passable job, of course, the salary is considerable if compared to some people, but it is far from adequate if compared to some high-paid people, not to mention compared to the estate price in Shenzhen.
So I want to go back to Xi'an and start a new career there, and I have bought a house there two years ago.
However, I have updated my resume for about one month, I find there is little chance to get a satisfying job there.
Now I have three offer, two in Shenzhen, and one in Ningbo, if I can't find one in Xi'an in the coming weeks, maybe I will choose to start my new career in Ningbo.
Please help me, I really want to live with my family and the premise may be that I have enough money to support my life and my family.
Remember, no matter how dreary and gray our homes are, we people of flesh and blood would rather live there and make our homes better than in any other country, there is no place like home.