mysql:
select a.*
from
(
select t1.*,(select count(*)+1 from 表 where 分组字段=t1.分组字段 and 排序字段<t1.排序字段) as group_id
from 表 t1
) a
where a.group_id<=3
Oracle:
SELECT t.*
FROM (SELECT ROW_NUMBER() OVER(PARTITION BY 分组字段 ORDER BY 排序字段 DESC) rn,
b.*
FROM 表 b) t
WHERE t.rn <= 3 ;